One rainy Tuesday, she reached the section on Affective Self-Control . She saw a photo of him at a cafe they used to frequent. Usually, this would trigger a spiral. Instead, she practiced the "Stop Technique" Riso described. She acknowledged the memory, labeled it as "past," and went back to her tea.
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: A central part of the "story" involves destroying the false hope that an ex will return, which Riso describes as "making castles in the air". Emotional Reinvention : The climax of the process is the "extinction of affection," One rainy Tuesday