Attraction is often fueled by familiarity and "forbiddenness." Because she is off-limits, your brain may be projecting an idealized version of her. You see the mother in controlled, social settings where she is likely composed and "put together." Meanwhile, you see the raw, unfiltered, everyday reality of your girlfriend. It’s an unfair comparison—one is a highlight reel, the other is the full movie. 2. The Power of "Mature" Allure
I've been dating my girlfriend for a while now, and I've grown to appreciate her unique qualities and characteristics. She's an amazing person, with a heart of gold and a quick wit that always keeps me on my toes. But, I have to admit, whenever her mom is around, I find myself drawn to her like a magnet. It's not that my girlfriend isn't attractive or lovely in her own right; it's just that her mom seems to radiate this effortless elegance and sophistication that leaves me... well, a bit awestruck. Attraction is often fueled by familiarity and "forbiddenness