: The "chopsticks" reference comes from a scene where a curious nun (played by Wikana Hikuru) uses the utensils to examine the protagonist's anatomy.

If you want realistic dynamics, borrow from psychology:

The Forbidden Legend: Sex and Chopsticks (2008) is a Taiwanese erotic historical film directed by Doze Niu, adapted from the classic erotic novel Jin Ping Mei (The Plum in the Golden Vase), an explicit Ming‑era work attributed to Lanling Xiaoxiao Sheng. The 2008 movie situates itself in the lineage of East Asian erotic cinema that seeks to translate sexually explicit classical literature for modern screens while negotiating censorship, art-house ambition, and commercial appeal.

Emma's heart skipped a beat. Was this a date? She agreed, and they met at a cozy coffee shop the next day. As they sipped their lattes, Emma felt a sense of ease with Ryan that she hadn't experienced with anyone in a long time. They talked for hours, laughing and joking like old friends.

: Many reviewers noted the film "loses steam" in the second half, transitioning from eroticism to broad slapstick comedy and disjointed storytelling. Letterboxd Notable Features & Plot Elements The Title's Origin