Malkin identifies specific "tells" that indicate dangerous narcissism before it becomes destructive: Rethinking Narcissism: Th - YUMPU 31 Aug 2020 —
Not every narcissist is a banishing. Sometimes, you stay—with strict emotional distance. You treat them like a difficult weather pattern. You don't get angry at the rain; you pack an umbrella. You don't get angry at the rain; you pack an umbrella
People who fear being seen as special. They often "echo" the needs of others, struggle to advocate for themselves, and are frequently drawn to narcissists. —where you value yourself enough to set boundaries
—where you value yourself enough to set boundaries and walk away from people who refuse to see your worth. If you'd like to dive deeper, let me know: Are you dealing with this person in a professional struggle to advocate for themselves
The word "narcissist" gets thrown around a lot these days—usually as a shorthand for anyone who takes too many selfies or talks about themselves at a dinner party. But true narcissism is far more complex than simple vanity.